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How to find an intellectual partner. |
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Dad - I want to find a smart husband? |
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Dad's response: |
If you want to find an intellectual partner you should do the following: |
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Best time to marry: Around age 28. Focus on your own career until then. |
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Look for a man who is about 3 to 6
years older! At that age, he will have his PhD or even tenure as
a professor or will have established himself
in a professional career. |
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Make sure to become pregnant as
soon as possible. At age 28 its high time. Don't believe the
nonsense that you can wait till your mid-30s. Your
biological clock is clicking. If he doesn't marry you, your child has at
least good chances to have received his first-class genes for high
intelligence. |
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If you have your own professional
career in the same field avoid to get into direct competition.
Don't kid yourself:
Very few men can accept that her wife is as good or even
better in his professional field. Sooner or later he will
get frustrated with your success. |
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Smart men are often extremely
shy (that is why dumb bullies usually get the best-looking
women). Smart men may also have mildly (to severely) anti-social
behavior. If necessary, make the first step to get a date! You
will be surprised how thankful some man are if they don't have
to make the first step. |
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You will find some really smart men
at robot competitions, large computer conferences, in "Apple"
stores, libraries, or online. (However, be extremely
careful with online contacts! You might end up with a psycho or
social freak.) |
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Best place to find a smart man: Get yourself a job in a high-tech
company in fields such as biotechnology, electronics,
pharmaceuticals, software development, web design, engineering,
space technology or medicine. Even if you don't work as a
researcher in these companies but in administration or
management, chances are high that you will meet some smart men. |
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If you are smart enough you
can try to get into Harvard, MIT, Caltech, or some other
top-notch research university or research center. There you will find many
smart males. However, avoid the men in your own class: They are
competition, not prospective husbands. Focus on older students
or assistant professors. |
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Hospitals are great marriage
markets! The high-pressure work environment, long hours, and
emotional exhaustion often brings doctors and hospital staff in close
contact. If you study medicine it shouldn't be difficult to find a smart man. Even if you can't make it through medical school you
might want to chose a hospital for a work place. Liaisons between female nurses and male doctors are quite common, but be careful not
to be exploited! |
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If you plan to work on your own PhD, check out the potential supervisors. Sometimes you find a young
ambitious professor who is still single. That is a perfect chance
for you to get your hand on an intellectual husband. Don't make
the mistake of "sweetly" asking him for advice after a
lecture (he knows what you are after). Better attack
him openly in class. He will remember your face. You can always "explain"
later over a coffee, why you were so aggressive. Of course, if you have grabbed yourself the guy as a husband you need to find
another supervisor for your PhD. |
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